Roland,
I'm glad my hints did help you somewhat, if only with the nVidia driver. Unlike SDL or IUP and the like, modern OpenGL is not just another graphics library but rather an intricate SW/HW complex, a platform of sorts. That's why nVidia has an advantage over their competitors here; their SW/HW is almost exclusively GPUs and related stuff whereas Intel and AMD have too many other things to worry about -- CPUs, motherboards, peripherals and what not. That's why they may seem to be not so friendly to your immediate needs.
Nonetheless, referring to your 64-bit notebook that's evidently equipped with Intel's HD GPU you reported. This is a built-in GPU that's housed in the same chipset with your main CPU on the notebook's MB. I gather the ATi Radeon card is a discrete peripheral installed there alongside the built in HD GPU and intended to work in parallel with the latter. That's also a trivial setup that's easily handled with both Intel's and ATi's equivalents of nVidia's OpenGL driver Control Center, so that once the most up-to-date drivers are installed for the both GPUs and if the OS you're using is also modern enough (Win 7 and up), the both GPUs will work in parallel co-operating with each other to allow for any single- or multi-monitor configuration you can imagine.
I can't advise you on the ATi products or drivers or installation utilities as I've never used them (I'm not rich enough to buy cheaper things
) but from what I hear, ATi Radeons are just a trifle poorer than nVidia GeForces (and as a matter of fact, much better than Intel's built-in HD GPUs) so that with a little trial and error, you'll be able to re-configure your wife's notebook as well. Do not hesitate to upgrade the software as they require because they are intelligent enough to install only what's immediately needed for proper/smoother operation. And you can always rollback your system to what it used to be if you don't forget to save the system restore points via your operating system's standard Control Panel utilities/services.
Good luck!